Ok yes I can see that and at the same time, I've had friends write their own stories or their own articles and they have discussed transgendered dysphoria and how it affects people and I've found myself agreeing with everything they say and the fact that they do understand something so fundamentally impossible to describe about me made it feel like someone could get it. So while yes I do sometimes see what Alex can be saying is true, I hate the approach they use to make it seem like no cis people will ever understand and therefore will just never understand and need to stop trying to. That and the whole article is contradictory. Cis people: You will never understand us and our struggles so I'm going to explain it so you understand us and our struggles!... Yeah no. Either they do or they don't. If they don't, no explanations. If they do, Esplain. Simple. Easy. Awesome. I just get super overprotective of my friends, cis or no, and I've been MORE protective of my cis friends since all I see on my stuffs is "TRANS PEOPLE R CUUL AND CIS PEOPLE CAN EAT PP" so I'm not a huge fan of how trans people talk about cis people. That being said I don't like how some cis talk about trans people too sooooo.... But thank you for sharing your approach and opinions and theories. I do understand what you're saying I just have my own opinions that for some dumb reason I want to share. That post was pretty strong so I might go back and edit that, but other than somewhat gentling the blow, I'm still going to be a man of my word and stand by every keystroke on that post.

Also I don't think it matters if I'm trans or not bc it's just human decency and Idc who you are, don't lope everyone together and hate the collective whole. That's how we got the discriminatory derogatory stereotypes like gay men are always at starbucks in dresses and talking like valley girls. Or lesbians are all shaved heads and binders and all that. Not true and not relevant. My feelings about this aren't valid because I'm trans. In my opinion my feelings aren't valid at all but I can't say that so I'll say that my feelings are valid because I am a person. Not always a kind person but a person.